Sitter/participant relationship quality

Note: Avoid doing and believing others' self-righteous indignation (aka 'I'm harming you for your own good'); it's a self-justification for promoting harm towards others derived from nonprovable value systems. View these moral grandstanders with extreme suspicion as they typically produce the worst outcomes for others via the delusion that they do not act in self-interest. This behavior is born from mediocrity that fuels an ego-inflating/ego-protecting existential ressentiment.